Proud To Be A Filipina

When I was growing up, I never saw myself as beautiful. Beautiful meant being curvy, having fair complexion, a firm nose, and light colored hair and eyes. I, on the other hand, was skinny, possessed straight black hair and dark eyes.My nose was small and as flat as a button. And I had no curves.

I was born and raised in the Philippines, a country in Southeast Asia which was a colony of both Spain and America sometime ago. Both cultures had a great impact on Filipino life, and in almost every aspect of daily living, there is evidence of Western presence. And just like any other country that had been colonized ,people have feelings of inferiority where “white” always equates to beauty.

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So growing up, I wasn’t exactly a standout from the crowd. No guy ever told me that I was beautiful. The campus heartthrobs were always the fair skinned ones who were usually the offspring of an interracial union. Even the boy that I had a longtime crush on was half-white himself.

Later in life , I learned to accept myself for who I was and make the most of it. I realized that I didn’t need to have fair skin to be considered beautiful .That my long , black hair and tanned skin can look very flattering on an off-shouldered top.

I discovered that being skinny wasn’t so bad at all. I could fit into and wear fashions like low-cut, skinny jeans. And my small nose ? At least it doesn’t stand out from the rest of my small face.

I also learned why sites like friendly.ph are very popular amongst western men .And this is because they find Filipina women very attractive.

I guess it is simply human nature to want something we don’t have and each race has physical features that they ought to be proud of.  Filipinas have a unique beauty of their own. And I am proud to be a Filipina.

Younger Women Who Prefer Older Men

You may have stereo-typed young women who search for older men in Asian dating sites as gold-diggers, which is probably true for some, but not for all.

The idea of younger women dating older men is age-old concept. But why? The age-old question has been pondered upon by psychologists, scientists, talk show hosts, high school girls at slumber parties, divorced wives , and younger men walking home alone after parties .

It is an evolutionary tactic for the woman to find the strongest, most confident man who can financially support her and provide her (if she chooses to) with genetically superior children?

If so, older men come out on top every time .

Evolutionarily, it’s the perfect match. Younger women like men who can provide emotionally and financially. And, luckily for those women, older men are visual creatures. That is right. They have an eye for pretty young ladies. ( isn’t it amazing ?)

So maybe , chemistry is related to the size of the man’s wallet. After all, some younger women would prefer a man who can shower her with the most sought-after designer things around .

There are probably many younger women who prefer this kind of arrangement , and, lucky for them, there are a lot of affluent older men who are more than happy to shower these women with the finer things.

And why shouldn’t they? Consenting adults can date and marry for different reasons.

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At the same time,  beautiful young women dating poor older men with limited financial means are very hard to find. Interesting isn’t it?

It’s always younger girl dates rich man ,  not younger girl dates poor man.

And that is exactly the reason why, if you check out popular dating sites like friendly.ph, you will see a lot of beautiful, younger women searching for older, more financially stable men.

Naturally, gold digging is a conditional arrangement that can be short-lived. After all, older men will only hold onto their arm candy so long as it pleases them. They have, after all, nothing to lose, because they can always find another young woman to date.

My Thoughts On Interracial Relationships

It’s true. People scoff and scorn when they see interracial couples, particularly caucasian men dating asian women . I have seen it and I have felt it. Those knowing glances as you walk past by. They think that you’re in it for the money and security of dating a white guy. They never realize that those couples are actually  in love . Yes, in love.

The tiny asian girl clinging to her man’s arm is deeply in love with her white knight in shining armor. It’s obvious because of the way she looks at him, smiles at him and glows when he touches her.

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But people don’t see that. Instead , they make their judgement  and base their assumptions on what is stereotyped by society.

Unbeknownst to them, these couples build very solid, stable relationships , live on happily ever after , and have beautiful offspring to boot.

And have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a beautiful, brown-eyed, golden skinned  asian woman clinging to your arm looking up at you with that cute smile ?

I’m sure, at some point in your life, you’ve fantasized about it , dreamed about it even.

So, are you just gonna sit down and wonder within such a short lifespan , if you’re ever gonna have your fantasies become a reality ?

Maybe it’s about time you took one bold step forward and start to look for her. Who knows ? She may just be waiting for you to find her.

When You’re In Love

When you’re in love it’s like a sugar-high of emotions.

When you see the person your stomach does a somersault and everyone and everything around you is put on pause mode

No matter what they look like or who they are, to you they are the most beautiful thing ever created.

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Kawasan Falls .A Sight To Behold

We had been walking for a good 15 minutes and it was almost late afternoon. I could only see glimpses of the sunshine above a lush canopy of leaves and foliage .

I breathed deeply. Inhaling the cool, fresh mountain air and marvelled at the beauty of the surroundings. How I wished I could come here more often but alas ! It was a 3-hour drive from the city where I lived.

I have heard horror stories of people getting lost in the woods there, never to be seen again and I felt something akin to fear as I lugged my heavy tote  bag down the long, narrow, slippery dirt road on the way to Kawasan Falls , in the town of Badian .

I was just about ready to turn back when I heard the oh too familiar noise of rushing water. I quickened my pace, half-running with excitement as the noise became almost deafening . I said to myself  ” Well, this better be blog-worthy, or I’m gonna kill the mutherfooker  who brought me here.

And sure enough , it was indeed a sight to behold…

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A Cock And Bull Story

Have you ever been to an unfamiliar place and tried to sample their local food?

Well , it happened to me, when I was in one of my provincial trips .

It was past lunchtime, and I was both hungry and thirsty from the 3-hour bus ride , so I decided to have lunch at the nearest eatery I could find .

It was a small shack , with bamboo seats and a thatched roof  but there were many patrons , so I figured that it was a popular place among the locals ..

I called the waiter’s attention and asked him what the house “specialty” was and he  said , ” it’s soup #5″

And since I was so famished I could eat a horse , I ordered what he recommended.

While waiting for the food , I looked around and noticed that the other people were eating the same thing. After a short wait, the order arrived.The soup bowl had barely landed on the table when I attacked the food with gusto.

It tasted good, a little like beef stew, however,  it had a slimy, gelatinous texture. Halfway through the meal , I realized that it could have been something other than beef..

I stirred the soup bowl, spooning the minced and diced pieces of meat but I couldn’t really tell what was floating in the thick, brown soup.

So I called the waiter’s attention again and discreetly asked him what soup was made of ,

and he replied with pride.

“Miss , it’s made from bull and horse genitals”.

“Are you kidding me ?”  I asked incredulously.

“ No miss. Actually, it is said to be a “virility soup” and a powerful aphrodisiac and a lot of people from nearby towns come here to be “rejuvenated”. He said a matter-of-factly.

I almost threw up right and then..I paid my bill and ran outside like the evil furies were after me..

I looked around for the nearest store ,bought a bottle of local rum and drank it like I was dying of thirst .

My hands were still shaking when I lit my cigarette a few minutes later.

I thought about what transpired and couldn’t help but think about the phrase “cock and bull” . Add that to ” could eat a horse”.

I wondered if whoever coined those phrases stumbled upon an old shack by the side of the road ?Image

Where To Find Beautiful Asian Women

The world is full of women likely to be falling in love with. They have the brains and the looks to sweep you off your feet! The problem lies in finding them. While many websites serve as mediums of contact between eligible bachelors and bachelor for Asian dating, only a few are true and sincere.

Since Internet has become rather a necessity in our lives than being a useful habit, we have come relying on it for being important enough. Dating and settling with the right man and woman is also a part of life and in this electronic digital age we are more and more dependent on the internet to find the perfect partner ,the perfect Asian woman!

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The only thing required by a male in order to search the right woman is to be patient and of course, to be sincere. They have the best Asian profiles available and the best part of it is the ease of a date in asia signup . Worry-free, hassle-free, safe, and you can create a profile within minutes !

Whether you’re looking  for a slim or weighty woman, all sorts of sincere women can be found here. Filipina girls and other Asian girls have updated profiles here and you can trust that they are sincere in meeting the man that meets their standards .

Men from all over the world love Asian beauties and Asian dating sites is the perfect way of  encouraging them to find that beautiful Asian woman they have been longing for.

There are sites that serve as the fastest and free of cost medium for all the eligible and interesting men who are interested in marrying or having a serious relationship with an Asian woman.

This is made possible by the online dating service providers like dateinasia  . Choose the right girl for you, an ideal match for you, then you are given a chance to date her online. If she meets your standards and if you feel that she would be perfect for you, you can meet her and then take the relationship to the next level.

Why Is Asian Dating So Popular ?

Asian dating sites are popular throughout the world, particularly in the West. What is it about these sites that make them so popular?

These sites are very popular because of the perception of Asian women in general as possessing great beauty and making ideal wives. There is something about the attractive shape of an Asian woman’s face, her beautifully shaped and limpid eyes, her slim figure , and her beautiful lustrous hair that attracts most western men.

They very loving  partners and regard their family as being the center of their world.

Many Asian people tend to be shy when dealing with people of the opposite sex thus, they find it much easier to meet a partner using an online dating site than to go searching elsewhere. And these sites are very easy to navigate. A typical dateinasia signup can only take a few minutes and is very user-friendly, even for the non-internet savvy user.

Asia is no different to Europe or America in that respect. In many instances, a dating site appears to be the ideal way for them to meet their future partners. They can communicate with other men that have the same interests as they themselves have and spend time getting to know each other online before deciding to meet offline .

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Many western men prefer the serenity and reserve of an Asian woman to the brashness and forwardness of western girls, and will prefer to use an Asian dating site to find a potential wife than try to seek one in their own country .

These reasons are that they are seeking somebody can live comfortably with, without the hassle and stress that many types of western women can give them. Asian wives are renowned for their devotion and beauty, and what more could a man want from his wife that a beautiful women, as devoted to him as he is to her?

Thus, Asian dating sites are the ideal platforms on which to find your ideal partner, but always make sure you know how to use them and how to stay safe.