How To Become More Endearing To Your Asian Girl

These are the golden rules if you want to ” level  up ” to your Asian woman without messing everything up

Be humble

If your image is that you’re an outgoing guy, or if you’re six feet two and she’s 5’1″, you definitely want to balance that act by being humble.

Its a given that Asian Women are shy and may not give compliments freely . So if she tells you she likes that Burberry shirt you’re wearing , it’s best to tell her as a joke that you’ve been wearing it for the past 5 days now. Laughter will ensue because you’ve elected to show humility.

Talk about possibilities and do not push for a date

Usually the deal breaker is being overaggressive and being pushy.This is what most foreigners have trouble with when it comes to Asian women. If you don’t want your date in Asia registration to come to waste, avoid being assertive and forceful.

Instead of saying “would you like to hang out ?,” say “would you like to go for a walk by the beach this weekend? That would be quite fun wouldn’t it?”

Look at it from a conservative Asian woman’s eyes. She pretty much lives a very introverted society and when you push for a date, she’ll immediately think of a yes or no answer. Or an excuse not to go out with you.

Befriend her close friends

An Asian Woman has a small, close-knit group of friends, and most likely they’re conservative as hell. If  you can intrigue her by becoming close to her close friends, she’ll want you a whole lot more because it shows you can “exist” in her world.

Now I don’t mean you have to stay there and play mahjong with everybody while watching a Korean Soap opera you don’t understand, but do spend some time with her friends. Again, maybe in other cultures its different, but Asian women place a high value on friendship and closeness, and as much as possible want their best friends and lovers in the same “camp.”

You’ll want to build enough allies within her group of friends who think you’re “the man”, and that will eventually aid you when you move on to the “meeting the parents’ stage. .


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