When You’re In Love

When you’re in love it’s like a sugar-high of emotions.

When you see the person your stomach does a somersault and everyone and everything around you is put on pause mode

No matter what they look like or who they are, to you they are the most beautiful thing ever created.

All of a sudden those mushy love songs make sense.Image


The True Meaning Of The Word

At around 10.00am everyday, my co worker Steffi and I take our smoke breaks outside the building where we work for .

We both work for date in asia.com, a popular Asian dating service that gives advice on how to get your lover back after a breakup and we were always on the lookout for a guy named Kim, a cute Chinese guy who takes his breaks just about the same time as we do.


We immediately spotted him outside , so I positioned myself  atop the stairs , just a few steps above him ( so I can closely scrutinize his cute Asian features ).

I noticed some guys sitting on the steps below me . And one of them was sporting a weird Afro hairdo .I have nothing against guys who have that same type of “do”, but they are simply not my type.

I was lost in thought, thinking how good Kim looked in his shirt and dark slacks  when I suddenly heard  Steffi yell .

She had spilled  coffee on Kim’s immaculate white shirt ! I almost jumped out of my skin , taken by surprise and dropped my cigarette on Mr. Afro guy’s hair …

The smell of burning hair wafted in the air while I desperately tried to extract the burning cigarette that had found it’s way inside the jungle that was Mr. Afro guy’s hair.


I could hear a few snickers and giggles in the background.

Luckily ,  it didn’t burn his scalp . I apologized profusely to the guy but had to run because my breaktime was almost over .

A few days later , after returning from another break , my co-workers informed me that there was a guy looking for me earlier . I asked them who it was and they pointed to a guy walking towards me .

It was Mr. Afro guy himself .Now sporting a half-shaved look .

” Excuse me , are you Isla ? ” he asked .

“Yes , I am “. I replied .

“I need to speak with you for a few ” he said .

“Why , what is it about ?”

” We’re in the process of creating a new  team , and you’re part of my team “.” I am your new supervisor “he said , with a smug look on his face .

Only then did I fully understand  the true meaning of the word FVCKED.

Why Asian Women Join Dating Sites

A lot of people are leery of women from Southeast Asia who join popular online dating sites like date of asia.com , because they think that majority of those women are scammers.

Well, some of them probably are, but heck, scammers are everywhere, not just on Asian dating sites.

Some of them though, are seeking true love , and most often, they are looking for greener pastures at the other side of the fence .


Unfortunately some Asian countries have weak economies and there’s less hope for these women to improve their quality of life. A long period of recession, high unemployment, and inflation ultimately, has made their lives more difficult.

And just like everybody else , they also expect  to prosper and have a decent, healthy way of life.

This is the major  reason why these Asian ladies would seek lovers  from overseas , foreign men from affluent  western countries like America, Europe, Canada and Australia, rather than marry a local man.

They all have in mind that marrying a foreigner will make their life change for the better.

They choose not to remain poor for the rest of their lives.

And in my humble opinion, there is nothing wrong with this set-up. For as long as there is a mutual agreement  and understanding between the man that will give her security and a better future, then why the hell not ?

It doesn’t mean that there’s no love at the end of the road.
After all, who can say that love isn’t sweeter when you have plenty of food in the fridge, your kids have decent education, wear decent clothes, and that every new day is a happy day to spend with a loving  husband.

My Favorite Online Game

I woke up in the dead of night because  I couldnt sleep. For lack of something to do, I logged onto my favorite online game to kill some time before sleep would finally claim me.

And so, there I was , getting my fix of a newly-acquired addiction ,online gaming .

I noticed this guy .He was a very good player and gleaned from our short conversations, I surmised that he had a lot of gray matter.

And so I made a mental note to be on the lookout for him the next time I was online .

Days and weeks went by , and I did not come across him, until one day, he found me.

We teamed up, had loads of fun playing, and knew that I had found a strong gaming ally in him.

I wondered if he was cute ? I was very determined to find out…

ImageAnd so , I added him as a friend of one of the social networking sites just to view his pics or just to find out the answer to the age-old question “ Is he dating someone ?:

And, just like what  I had expected , he was not bad-looking and was single.

So ,I made a mental note to get to know him better.

And get to know him I did.

We talked about  his life, his job, and how his work as an engineer for a huge food manufacturing company took him to different  places all over the country .

He seemed very interested when I told him that I wrote blogs for date of Asia.

A few months into our friendship, he mentioned that he was coming to my place on a work-related trip and I agreed to meet him.

We had dinner at a Chinese restaurant and I couldn’t help but notice that he used a lot of gel, without a strand of hair out of place.

I almost kicked myself when he asked me what I wanted to have for a drink and I inadvertently replied “gel”.

Moving forward , we became inseparable and maintained a comfortable level of friendship.

But alas, all good things must come to and end.

He had to be reassigned to another country in South East Asia . I will probably never hear from him again.

Along the journeys in life
we discover a new path
that leads us to a special place.
And it is there, for a moment,
we feel safe and at home.
And the people we meet seem to become a very dear part of us.
Somehow, things just fit,
and we are awakened within,
and continue on with memories
of those who have deeply touched our hearts.
And with us we take those special
friends with whom we have connected
heart to heart.”

– Author Unknown –

My Thoughts On Interracial Relationships

It’s true. People scoff and scorn when they see interracial couples, particularly caucasian men dating asian women . I have seen it and I have felt it. Those knowing glances as you walk past by. They think that you’re in it for the money and security of dating a white guy. They never realize that those couples are actually  in love . Yes, in love.

The tiny asian girl clinging to her man’s arm is deeply in love with her white knight in shining armor. It’s obvious because of the way she looks at him, smiles at him and glows when he touches her.

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But people don’t see that. Instead , they make their judgement  and base their assumptions on what is stereotyped by society.

Unbeknownst to them, these couples build very solid, stable relationships , live on happily ever after , and have beautiful offspring to boot.

And have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a beautiful, brown-eyed, golden skinned  asian woman clinging to your arm looking up at you with that cute smile ?

I’m sure, at some point in your life, you’ve fantasized about it , dreamed about it even.

So, are you just gonna sit down and wonder within such a short lifespan , if you’re ever gonna have your fantasies become a reality ?

Maybe it’s about time you took one bold step forward and start to look for her. Who knows ? She may just be waiting for you to find her.

Asian Women Are Naturally Beautiful

Nowadays, everything is geared towards everything Asian. Women from western countries are now even adapting Asian fashion and make-up so that they can bank on the  attraction men have for the  women of the East .

Asian women are naturally beautiful with gorgeous black hair, golden brown skin, and petite frames . Our slow, sexy ,  languorous moves have been known to drive men well, crazy. And the thing is, it’s all natural and unpretentious .Our grace and femininity are innate to us.

Western  women who are exposed to a more hectic way of living seem  to have adapted a more masculine demeanor throughout the years .Thus, the femininity of the these Asian women is very attractive to the western men .

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Asian women are generally faithful and honest  honest to their partners  due to  family customs and traditions . This quality may not be available in other cultures .Other people may strike us as weak slaves , when in fact we are not. We just know how to care for our men, in a way only an Asian woman knows how.

Therefore , if you are in search of a long lasting relationship, then finding   an Asian woman is a good choice.

Why Do Asian Women Prefer Older Men ?

Why date asian women ?

Asian women prefer older, more mature men simply because they feel that older men are more responsible and stable than men of their own age.In some  cases, girls date mature men because they find older men more attractive and appealing  than the younger set.

I would rather date an older , more steadfast and stable  man who would spend time walking me through the stages of building a wonderful relationship than a young, immature guy who would rather spend time playing computer games and still supported by his parents.

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My own sister, who was then 25, married an older guy who was twice her age. I often ask her how their relationship is going, and she would always reply that she falls in love with him again and again every single day.

One simple secret to the success of their relationship is that he gives her all the time and attention that she needs, enough to keep her happy , and she reciprocates with all the love and attention that she can give.

Today, albeit without children, they are the envy of their friends and neighbors . You would often see them go out on dates, holding hands and smooching. They are approaching their 7th year of marriage but they still look and act like newlyweds.

Thus, her success story brings me to this date asian women site where I can possibly find the mature man of my dreams.