Proud To Be A Filipina

When I was growing up, I never saw myself as beautiful. Beautiful meant being curvy, having fair complexion, a firm nose, and light colored hair and eyes. I, on the other hand, was skinny, possessed straight black hair and dark eyes.My nose was small and as flat as a button. And I had no curves.

I was born and raised in the Philippines, a country in Southeast Asia which was a colony of both Spain and America sometime ago. Both cultures had a great impact on Filipino life, and in almost every aspect of daily living, there is evidence of Western presence. And just like any other country that had been colonized ,people have feelings of inferiority where “white” always equates to beauty.

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So growing up, I wasn’t exactly a standout from the crowd. No guy ever told me that I was beautiful. The campus heartthrobs were always the fair skinned ones who were usually the offspring of an interracial union. Even the boy that I had a longtime crush on was half-white himself.

Later in life , I learned to accept myself for who I was and make the most of it. I realized that I didn’t need to have fair skin to be considered beautiful .That my long , black hair and tanned skin can look very flattering on an off-shouldered top.

I discovered that being skinny wasn’t so bad at all. I could fit into and wear fashions like low-cut, skinny jeans. And my small nose ? At least it doesn’t stand out from the rest of my small face.

I also learned why sites like friendly.ph are very popular amongst western men .And this is because they find Filipina women very attractive.

I guess it is simply human nature to want something we don’t have and each race has physical features that they ought to be proud of.  Filipinas have a unique beauty of their own. And I am proud to be a Filipina.

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Why Is Asian Dating So Popular ?

Asian dating sites are popular throughout the world, particularly in the West. What is it about these sites that make them so popular?

These sites are very popular because of the perception of Asian women in general as possessing great beauty and making ideal wives. There is something about the attractive shape of an Asian woman’s face, her beautifully shaped and limpid eyes, her slim figure , and her beautiful lustrous hair that attracts most western men.

They very loving  partners and regard their family as being the center of their world.

Many Asian people tend to be shy when dealing with people of the opposite sex thus, they find it much easier to meet a partner using an online dating site than to go searching elsewhere. And these sites are very easy to navigate. A typical dateinasia signup can only take a few minutes and is very user-friendly, even for the non-internet savvy user.

Asia is no different to Europe or America in that respect. In many instances, a dating site appears to be the ideal way for them to meet their future partners. They can communicate with other men that have the same interests as they themselves have and spend time getting to know each other online before deciding to meet offline .

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Many western men prefer the serenity and reserve of an Asian woman to the brashness and forwardness of western girls, and will prefer to use an Asian dating site to find a potential wife than try to seek one in their own country .

These reasons are that they are seeking somebody can live comfortably with, without the hassle and stress that many types of western women can give them. Asian wives are renowned for their devotion and beauty, and what more could a man want from his wife that a beautiful women, as devoted to him as he is to her?

Thus, Asian dating sites are the ideal platforms on which to find your ideal partner, but always make sure you know how to use them and how to stay safe.

The True Meaning Of The Word

At around 10.00am everyday, my co worker Steffi and I take our smoke breaks outside the building where we work for .

We both work for date in asia.com, a popular Asian dating service that gives advice on how to get your lover back after a breakup and we were always on the lookout for a guy named Kim, a cute Chinese guy who takes his breaks just about the same time as we do.

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We immediately spotted him outside , so I positioned myself  atop the stairs , just a few steps above him ( so I can closely scrutinize his cute Asian features ).

I noticed some guys sitting on the steps below me . And one of them was sporting a weird Afro hairdo .I have nothing against guys who have that same type of “do”, but they are simply not my type.

I was lost in thought, thinking how good Kim looked in his shirt and dark slacks  when I suddenly heard  Steffi yell .

She had spilled  coffee on Kim’s immaculate white shirt ! I almost jumped out of my skin , taken by surprise and dropped my cigarette on Mr. Afro guy’s hair …

The smell of burning hair wafted in the air while I desperately tried to extract the burning cigarette that had found it’s way inside the jungle that was Mr. Afro guy’s hair.

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I could hear a few snickers and giggles in the background.

Luckily ,  it didn’t burn his scalp . I apologized profusely to the guy but had to run because my breaktime was almost over .

A few days later , after returning from another break , my co-workers informed me that there was a guy looking for me earlier . I asked them who it was and they pointed to a guy walking towards me .

It was Mr. Afro guy himself .Now sporting a half-shaved look .

” Excuse me , are you Isla ? ” he asked .

“Yes , I am “. I replied .

“I need to speak with you for a few ” he said .

“Why , what is it about ?”

” We’re in the process of creating a new  team , and you’re part of my team “.” I am your new supervisor “he said , with a smug look on his face .

Only then did I fully understand  the true meaning of the word FVCKED.

Few Things To Keep In Mind When Dating Asian Women

Before you check out asian women dating sites , here are a few things to know about Asian women :

Asian girls  are very romantic at heart . They love fairy tales and cheesy love stories . That’s why soap operas are very popular here.

Contrary to popular belief , Asian women are not meek lambs. Due to family and cultural upbringing, they respond very well to authority more than the women from other parts of the world . So it’s important that you show respect . And the notion that they will cater to you hand and foot is a thing of the past.

Asian women  are shy and they won’t give it up on the first night ( sorry guys ), so you need to work for it over a few weeks. Take them out to dinner , the movies , the malls ( a popular favorite ) get to know them well first , build a deep level of rapport before even contemplating on elevating it to the next level.

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Asian women are great homemakers because Asian girls help with the household chores at a very young age. If you visit an Asian home, you’ll find that it is always organized , and even the poorest households have their simple meals prepared with care.

Even if they’re only going out to go get groceries , Asian women always want to look their best . Ever wondered why , most Asian cities , you see spas and wellness centers every few blocks or so ? Because they feel it’s important to stay beautiful inside and out.

My Thoughts On Interracial Relationships

It’s true. People scoff and scorn when they see interracial couples, particularly caucasian men dating asian women . I have seen it and I have felt it. Those knowing glances as you walk past by. They think that you’re in it for the money and security of dating a white guy. They never realize that those couples are actually  in love . Yes, in love.

The tiny asian girl clinging to her man’s arm is deeply in love with her white knight in shining armor. It’s obvious because of the way she looks at him, smiles at him and glows when he touches her.

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But people don’t see that. Instead , they make their judgement  and base their assumptions on what is stereotyped by society.

Unbeknownst to them, these couples build very solid, stable relationships , live on happily ever after , and have beautiful offspring to boot.

And have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a beautiful, brown-eyed, golden skinned  asian woman clinging to your arm looking up at you with that cute smile ?

I’m sure, at some point in your life, you’ve fantasized about it , dreamed about it even.

So, are you just gonna sit down and wonder within such a short lifespan , if you’re ever gonna have your fantasies become a reality ?

Maybe it’s about time you took one bold step forward and start to look for her. Who knows ? She may just be waiting for you to find her.

Why Do Asian Women Prefer Older Men ?

Why date asian women ?

Asian women prefer older, more mature men simply because they feel that older men are more responsible and stable than men of their own age.In some  cases, girls date mature men because they find older men more attractive and appealing  than the younger set.

I would rather date an older , more steadfast and stable  man who would spend time walking me through the stages of building a wonderful relationship than a young, immature guy who would rather spend time playing computer games and still supported by his parents.

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My own sister, who was then 25, married an older guy who was twice her age. I often ask her how their relationship is going, and she would always reply that she falls in love with him again and again every single day.

One simple secret to the success of their relationship is that he gives her all the time and attention that she needs, enough to keep her happy , and she reciprocates with all the love and attention that she can give.

Today, albeit without children, they are the envy of their friends and neighbors . You would often see them go out on dates, holding hands and smooching. They are approaching their 7th year of marriage but they still look and act like newlyweds.

Thus, her success story brings me to this date asian women site where I can possibly find the mature man of my dreams.

Why Date Asian Women?

At some point in their lives, and despite the language and culture barriers , men have fantasized about dating an Asian woman . Why so ? Because with their beautiful brown skin , lush black hair and  petite figures , these women have this exotic beauty and allure that only an Asian woman can possess.

Asian women like to do a lot of physical activities because they are very mindful of their figures. You don’t see them sitting all day at home watching televison or playing with electronic gadgets. Well, at least only a very small fraction of them does. And a vast majority of them are intelligent  because they take education very seriously.

Not only do they possess good physical attributes, Asian women are  simple yet sexy , passionate , and loyal to their partners . They don’t mind being subservient , because it is ingrained in their culture . They are known to be generally happy and it doesn’t take much to make them happy.

Thus, a lot of men all over the world look for the girl of their dreams , beautiful asian ladies  who move on to become their lifetime partners , because Asian women always stand by their men and don’t leave when the going gets tough.

Why date asian women ? Because she is your fantasy come to life. Live your fantasy . Dare to explore. Come to Asia , date asian women , and watch your dreams and fantasies come true.