When You’re In Love

When you’re in love it’s like a sugar-high of emotions.

When you see the person your stomach does a somersault and everyone and everything around you is put on pause mode

No matter what they look like or who they are, to you they are the most beautiful thing ever created.

All of a sudden those mushy love songs make sense.Image

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Why Is Asian Dating So Popular ?

Asian dating sites are popular throughout the world, particularly in the West. What is it about these sites that make them so popular?

These sites are very popular because of the perception of Asian women in general as possessing great beauty and making ideal wives. There is something about the attractive shape of an Asian woman’s face, her beautifully shaped and limpid eyes, her slim figure , and her beautiful lustrous hair that attracts most western men.

They very loving  partners and regard their family as being the center of their world.

Many Asian people tend to be shy when dealing with people of the opposite sex thus, they find it much easier to meet a partner using an online dating site than to go searching elsewhere. And these sites are very easy to navigate. A typical dateinasia signup can only take a few minutes and is very user-friendly, even for the non-internet savvy user.

Asia is no different to Europe or America in that respect. In many instances, a dating site appears to be the ideal way for them to meet their future partners. They can communicate with other men that have the same interests as they themselves have and spend time getting to know each other online before deciding to meet offline .

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Many western men prefer the serenity and reserve of an Asian woman to the brashness and forwardness of western girls, and will prefer to use an Asian dating site to find a potential wife than try to seek one in their own country .

These reasons are that they are seeking somebody can live comfortably with, without the hassle and stress that many types of western women can give them. Asian wives are renowned for their devotion and beauty, and what more could a man want from his wife that a beautiful women, as devoted to him as he is to her?

Thus, Asian dating sites are the ideal platforms on which to find your ideal partner, but always make sure you know how to use them and how to stay safe.

The True Meaning Of The Word

At around 10.00am everyday, my co worker Steffi and I take our smoke breaks outside the building where we work for .

We both work for date in asia.com, a popular Asian dating service that gives advice on how to get your lover back after a breakup and we were always on the lookout for a guy named Kim, a cute Chinese guy who takes his breaks just about the same time as we do.

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We immediately spotted him outside , so I positioned myself  atop the stairs , just a few steps above him ( so I can closely scrutinize his cute Asian features ).

I noticed some guys sitting on the steps below me . And one of them was sporting a weird Afro hairdo .I have nothing against guys who have that same type of “do”, but they are simply not my type.

I was lost in thought, thinking how good Kim looked in his shirt and dark slacks  when I suddenly heard  Steffi yell .

She had spilled  coffee on Kim’s immaculate white shirt ! I almost jumped out of my skin , taken by surprise and dropped my cigarette on Mr. Afro guy’s hair …

The smell of burning hair wafted in the air while I desperately tried to extract the burning cigarette that had found it’s way inside the jungle that was Mr. Afro guy’s hair.

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I could hear a few snickers and giggles in the background.

Luckily ,  it didn’t burn his scalp . I apologized profusely to the guy but had to run because my breaktime was almost over .

A few days later , after returning from another break , my co-workers informed me that there was a guy looking for me earlier . I asked them who it was and they pointed to a guy walking towards me .

It was Mr. Afro guy himself .Now sporting a half-shaved look .

” Excuse me , are you Isla ? ” he asked .

“Yes , I am “. I replied .

“I need to speak with you for a few ” he said .

“Why , what is it about ?”

” We’re in the process of creating a new  team , and you’re part of my team “.” I am your new supervisor “he said , with a smug look on his face .

Only then did I fully understand  the true meaning of the word FVCKED.

Why Asian Women Join Dating Sites

A lot of people are leery of women from Southeast Asia who join popular online dating sites like date of asia.com , because they think that majority of those women are scammers.

Well, some of them probably are, but heck, scammers are everywhere, not just on Asian dating sites.

Some of them though, are seeking true love , and most often, they are looking for greener pastures at the other side of the fence .

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Unfortunately some Asian countries have weak economies and there’s less hope for these women to improve their quality of life. A long period of recession, high unemployment, and inflation ultimately, has made their lives more difficult.

And just like everybody else , they also expect  to prosper and have a decent, healthy way of life.

This is the major  reason why these Asian ladies would seek lovers  from overseas , foreign men from affluent  western countries like America, Europe, Canada and Australia, rather than marry a local man.

They all have in mind that marrying a foreigner will make their life change for the better.

They choose not to remain poor for the rest of their lives.

And in my humble opinion, there is nothing wrong with this set-up. For as long as there is a mutual agreement  and understanding between the man that will give her security and a better future, then why the hell not ?

It doesn’t mean that there’s no love at the end of the road.
After all, who can say that love isn’t sweeter when you have plenty of food in the fridge, your kids have decent education, wear decent clothes, and that every new day is a happy day to spend with a loving  husband.

Few Things To Keep In Mind When Dating Asian Women

Before you check out asian women dating sites , here are a few things to know about Asian women :

Asian girls  are very romantic at heart . They love fairy tales and cheesy love stories . That’s why soap operas are very popular here.

Contrary to popular belief , Asian women are not meek lambs. Due to family and cultural upbringing, they respond very well to authority more than the women from other parts of the world . So it’s important that you show respect . And the notion that they will cater to you hand and foot is a thing of the past.

Asian women  are shy and they won’t give it up on the first night ( sorry guys ), so you need to work for it over a few weeks. Take them out to dinner , the movies , the malls ( a popular favorite ) get to know them well first , build a deep level of rapport before even contemplating on elevating it to the next level.

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Asian women are great homemakers because Asian girls help with the household chores at a very young age. If you visit an Asian home, you’ll find that it is always organized , and even the poorest households have their simple meals prepared with care.

Even if they’re only going out to go get groceries , Asian women always want to look their best . Ever wondered why , most Asian cities , you see spas and wellness centers every few blocks or so ? Because they feel it’s important to stay beautiful inside and out.

My Thoughts On Interracial Relationships

It’s true. People scoff and scorn when they see interracial couples, particularly caucasian men dating asian women . I have seen it and I have felt it. Those knowing glances as you walk past by. They think that you’re in it for the money and security of dating a white guy. They never realize that those couples are actually  in love . Yes, in love.

The tiny asian girl clinging to her man’s arm is deeply in love with her white knight in shining armor. It’s obvious because of the way she looks at him, smiles at him and glows when he touches her.

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But people don’t see that. Instead , they make their judgement  and base their assumptions on what is stereotyped by society.

Unbeknownst to them, these couples build very solid, stable relationships , live on happily ever after , and have beautiful offspring to boot.

And have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a beautiful, brown-eyed, golden skinned  asian woman clinging to your arm looking up at you with that cute smile ?

I’m sure, at some point in your life, you’ve fantasized about it , dreamed about it even.

So, are you just gonna sit down and wonder within such a short lifespan , if you’re ever gonna have your fantasies become a reality ?

Maybe it’s about time you took one bold step forward and start to look for her. Who knows ? She may just be waiting for you to find her.

My Experience With Dating Sites

Years ago, when I was out of work and bored at home, stumbled upon an asian women dating site friendly.ph. It had never occurred to me that there were plenty of men out there who would prefer brown-skinned, exotic women from South East Asia .

So, I hooked up a cam, and started chatting online , and it would play a major role in improving not only my communication skills, typing skills, and more importantly the way I deal and interact with other people particularly guys from overseas .

I made a lot of emotional connections , got to meet a few of them, and ultimately fell in love . It was a two-year affair . He was a young 21-year old hockey player from Sweden. We started chatting at first, then a few months into our relationship, we agreed to meet.

So he flew over from Sweden to meet me . And when we finally met, the sparks were literally flying between us.

He stayed here for a week , and I took him to see the beautiful beaches that my town is famous for.

 We talked about our long –distance  relationship, and what we would do to make it work.

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 When he left, we communicated daily, through chat, emails, and phone calls.

After a while, he got drafted into a national hockey team, and I found work at a local call center here. That started the demise of our relationship. We simply did not have the time to communicate anymore.

 To summarize, Asian dating is a wonderful venue and opportunity for people to meet and possibly connect . It gives a platform for Asian women to meet the men of their dreams albeit from other cultures , and go through wonderful, life-changing experiences .