Proud To Be A Filipina

When I was growing up, I never saw myself as beautiful. Beautiful meant being curvy, having fair complexion, a firm nose, and light colored hair and eyes. I, on the other hand, was skinny, possessed straight black hair and dark eyes.My nose was small and as flat as a button. And I had no curves.

I was born and raised in the Philippines, a country in Southeast Asia which was a colony of both Spain and America sometime ago. Both cultures had a great impact on Filipino life, and in almost every aspect of daily living, there is evidence of Western presence. And just like any other country that had been colonized ,people have feelings of inferiority where “white” always equates to beauty.

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So growing up, I wasn’t exactly a standout from the crowd. No guy ever told me that I was beautiful. The campus heartthrobs were always the fair skinned ones who were usually the offspring of an interracial union. Even the boy that I had a longtime crush on was half-white himself.

Later in life , I learned to accept myself for who I was and make the most of it. I realized that I didn’t need to have fair skin to be considered beautiful .That my long , black hair and tanned skin can look very flattering on an off-shouldered top.

I discovered that being skinny wasn’t so bad at all. I could fit into and wear fashions like low-cut, skinny jeans. And my small nose ? At least it doesn’t stand out from the rest of my small face.

I also learned why sites like friendly.ph are very popular amongst western men .And this is because they find Filipina women very attractive.

I guess it is simply human nature to want something we don’t have and each race has physical features that they ought to be proud of.  Filipinas have a unique beauty of their own. And I am proud to be a Filipina.

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When You’re In Love

When you’re in love it’s like a sugar-high of emotions.

When you see the person your stomach does a somersault and everyone and everything around you is put on pause mode

No matter what they look like or who they are, to you they are the most beautiful thing ever created.

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Where To Find Beautiful Asian Women

The world is full of women likely to be falling in love with. They have the brains and the looks to sweep you off your feet! The problem lies in finding them. While many websites serve as mediums of contact between eligible bachelors and bachelor for Asian dating, only a few are true and sincere.

Since Internet has become rather a necessity in our lives than being a useful habit, we have come relying on it for being important enough. Dating and settling with the right man and woman is also a part of life and in this electronic digital age we are more and more dependent on the internet to find the perfect partner ,the perfect Asian woman!

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The only thing required by a male in order to search the right woman is to be patient and of course, to be sincere. They have the best Asian profiles available and the best part of it is the ease of a date in asia signup . Worry-free, hassle-free, safe, and you can create a profile within minutes !

Whether you’re looking  for a slim or weighty woman, all sorts of sincere women can be found here. Filipina girls and other Asian girls have updated profiles here and you can trust that they are sincere in meeting the man that meets their standards .

Men from all over the world love Asian beauties and Asian dating sites is the perfect way of  encouraging them to find that beautiful Asian woman they have been longing for.

There are sites that serve as the fastest and free of cost medium for all the eligible and interesting men who are interested in marrying or having a serious relationship with an Asian woman.

This is made possible by the online dating service providers like dateinasia  . Choose the right girl for you, an ideal match for you, then you are given a chance to date her online. If she meets your standards and if you feel that she would be perfect for you, you can meet her and then take the relationship to the next level.

Why Is Asian Dating So Popular ?

Asian dating sites are popular throughout the world, particularly in the West. What is it about these sites that make them so popular?

These sites are very popular because of the perception of Asian women in general as possessing great beauty and making ideal wives. There is something about the attractive shape of an Asian woman’s face, her beautifully shaped and limpid eyes, her slim figure , and her beautiful lustrous hair that attracts most western men.

They very loving  partners and regard their family as being the center of their world.

Many Asian people tend to be shy when dealing with people of the opposite sex thus, they find it much easier to meet a partner using an online dating site than to go searching elsewhere. And these sites are very easy to navigate. A typical dateinasia signup can only take a few minutes and is very user-friendly, even for the non-internet savvy user.

Asia is no different to Europe or America in that respect. In many instances, a dating site appears to be the ideal way for them to meet their future partners. They can communicate with other men that have the same interests as they themselves have and spend time getting to know each other online before deciding to meet offline .

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Many western men prefer the serenity and reserve of an Asian woman to the brashness and forwardness of western girls, and will prefer to use an Asian dating site to find a potential wife than try to seek one in their own country .

These reasons are that they are seeking somebody can live comfortably with, without the hassle and stress that many types of western women can give them. Asian wives are renowned for their devotion and beauty, and what more could a man want from his wife that a beautiful women, as devoted to him as he is to her?

Thus, Asian dating sites are the ideal platforms on which to find your ideal partner, but always make sure you know how to use them and how to stay safe.

Younger Women Who Prefer Older Men

You may have stereo-typed young women who search for older men in Asian dating sites as gold-diggers, which is probably true for some, but not for all.

The idea of younger women dating older men is age-old concept. But why? The age-old question has been pondered upon by psychologists, scientists, talk show hosts, high school girls at slumber parties, divorced wives , and younger men walking home alone after parties .

It is an evolutionary tactic for the woman to find the strongest, most confident man who can financially support her and provide her (if she chooses to) with genetically superior children?

If so, older men come out on top every time .

Evolutionarily, it’s the perfect match. Younger women like men who can provide emotionally and financially. And, luckily for those women, older men are visual creatures. That is right. They have an eye for pretty young ladies. ( isn’t it amazing ?)

So maybe , chemistry is related to the size of the man’s wallet. After all, some younger women would prefer a man who can shower her with the most sought-after designer things around .

There are probably many younger women who prefer this kind of arrangement , and, lucky for them, there are a lot of affluent older men who are more than happy to shower these women with the finer things.

And why shouldn’t they? Consenting adults can date and marry for different reasons.

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At the same time,  beautiful young women dating poor older men with limited financial means are very hard to find. Interesting isn’t it?

It’s always younger girl dates rich man ,  not younger girl dates poor man.

And that is exactly the reason why, if you check out popular dating sites like friendly.ph, you will see a lot of beautiful, younger women searching for older, more financially stable men.

Naturally, gold digging is a conditional arrangement that can be short-lived. After all, older men will only hold onto their arm candy so long as it pleases them. They have, after all, nothing to lose, because they can always find another young woman to date.

The True Meaning Of The Word

At around 10.00am everyday, my co worker Steffi and I take our smoke breaks outside the building where we work for .

We both work for date in asia.com, a popular Asian dating service that gives advice on how to get your lover back after a breakup and we were always on the lookout for a guy named Kim, a cute Chinese guy who takes his breaks just about the same time as we do.

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We immediately spotted him outside , so I positioned myself  atop the stairs , just a few steps above him ( so I can closely scrutinize his cute Asian features ).

I noticed some guys sitting on the steps below me . And one of them was sporting a weird Afro hairdo .I have nothing against guys who have that same type of “do”, but they are simply not my type.

I was lost in thought, thinking how good Kim looked in his shirt and dark slacks  when I suddenly heard  Steffi yell .

She had spilled  coffee on Kim’s immaculate white shirt ! I almost jumped out of my skin , taken by surprise and dropped my cigarette on Mr. Afro guy’s hair …

The smell of burning hair wafted in the air while I desperately tried to extract the burning cigarette that had found it’s way inside the jungle that was Mr. Afro guy’s hair.

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I could hear a few snickers and giggles in the background.

Luckily ,  it didn’t burn his scalp . I apologized profusely to the guy but had to run because my breaktime was almost over .

A few days later , after returning from another break , my co-workers informed me that there was a guy looking for me earlier . I asked them who it was and they pointed to a guy walking towards me .

It was Mr. Afro guy himself .Now sporting a half-shaved look .

” Excuse me , are you Isla ? ” he asked .

“Yes , I am “. I replied .

“I need to speak with you for a few ” he said .

“Why , what is it about ?”

” We’re in the process of creating a new  team , and you’re part of my team “.” I am your new supervisor “he said , with a smug look on his face .

Only then did I fully understand  the true meaning of the word FVCKED.

Why Asian Women Join Dating Sites

A lot of people are leery of women from Southeast Asia who join popular online dating sites like date of asia.com , because they think that majority of those women are scammers.

Well, some of them probably are, but heck, scammers are everywhere, not just on Asian dating sites.

Some of them though, are seeking true love , and most often, they are looking for greener pastures at the other side of the fence .

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Unfortunately some Asian countries have weak economies and there’s less hope for these women to improve their quality of life. A long period of recession, high unemployment, and inflation ultimately, has made their lives more difficult.

And just like everybody else , they also expect  to prosper and have a decent, healthy way of life.

This is the major  reason why these Asian ladies would seek lovers  from overseas , foreign men from affluent  western countries like America, Europe, Canada and Australia, rather than marry a local man.

They all have in mind that marrying a foreigner will make their life change for the better.

They choose not to remain poor for the rest of their lives.

And in my humble opinion, there is nothing wrong with this set-up. For as long as there is a mutual agreement  and understanding between the man that will give her security and a better future, then why the hell not ?

It doesn’t mean that there’s no love at the end of the road.
After all, who can say that love isn’t sweeter when you have plenty of food in the fridge, your kids have decent education, wear decent clothes, and that every new day is a happy day to spend with a loving  husband.